This Chick Read: You Should Have Known by Jean Hanff Korelitz

I read this book in one eight hour sitting because I was down to the weekend before The Hot Chicks Who Read, my book club, were getting together to discuss this book.  Thankfully, my husband had the crud that’s been going around, and I was able to spend the entire day focused on this book.  Boy did I need it!  The author’s writing style was very detailed and every sentence had meaning to the story. If I had not spent those consecutive hours delving into these characters minds, I think I would have missed some nuances of this very well written, psychological thriller.

The following synopsis was taken directly from

Grace Reinhart Sachs is living the only life she ever wanted for herself. Devoted to her husband, a pediatric oncologist at a major cancer hospital, their young son Henry, and the patients she sees in her therapy practice, her days are full of familiar things: she lives in the very New York apartment in which she was raised, and sends Henry to the school she herself once attended. Dismayed by the ways in which women delude themselves, Grace is also the author of a book You Should Have Known, in which she cautions women to really hear what men are trying to tell them. But weeks before the book is published a chasm opens in her own life: a violent death, a missing husband, and, in the place of a man Grace thought she knew, only an ongoing chain of terrible revelations. Left behind in the wake of a spreading and very public disaster, and horrified by the ways in which she has failed to heed her own advice, Grace must dismantle one life and create another for her child and herself.

The author’s premise of a woman who writes a book telling women that they have only themselves to blame if their husbands aren’t who they thought when they got married made my group not like the character of Grace initially.  I know I didn’t.  As the book goes on, and Grace has become the pupil her book is directed at, instead of the teacher, you start to feel bad for her.  I don’t want to give any plot points away, but at one point you really wonder how, as a Counselor to others, she missed all of these signs in her own relationship.  It was only after she rallies around her son, and her relationship with her father is repaired do I start to believe that she has learned her lesson, and I’m able to embrace her character.  I truly believe that this was the author’s purpose.  Jean Hanff Korelitz put the ring in my nose and led me down this psychological pathway.  We, the reader are supposed to hate the protagonist, even though she isn’t a horrible person.  Bravo, because all of my group did, and some carried it through to the end of the book.  This doesn’t mean we hated the book.  Far from it, in fact!  We were all uncomfortable witnessing the naïveté Grace exhibited, and angry that she wore such big blinders.

I was fascinated with the fictional book that Grace was writing.  Do we women also put blinders on when we enter a relationship?  Are we so happy to have found a man to settle down with, who will accept the faults we see in ourselves, and hope he doesn’t see them, and overlook his faults?  It made all of us think back to the beginnings of our own relationships.  Of course, at our table, none of us disclosed those faults, but we all nodded in agreement that some were deemed not as important.  That was a fascinating side note to the book club discussion, which is part of what makes them so fun.

The unwinding of the mystery surrounding the disappearance of Grace’s husband was exacting in its precision.  I recommend this book to those of you who love psychological thrillers.  This is a very good one, and the author makes every detail count, so don’t skip anything!

Copyright 2016 Deborah Kehoe A Chick Who Reads All Rights Reserved

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